The Things I (wished) I Had Done
Harvard Graduate School of Education student Martha Schnee reflects on what she has lost due to the pandemic through the lens of all she has gained.

The Things I (wished) I Had Done

By Martha Schnee


is shabbat and
I go first to a zoom dance party and
second to a zoom singing circle service there are
three hundred people there

I gasp in glory at
sight of tiny baby sitting on a couch,
elder couple at a table, candles lit,
children dancing in a three, arms linked


afterwards I make a lentil squash soup 
the one I read about,
the one that sustained Seattle nurse
Reid Branson
for 17 years     

he’d cook a big batch
every other saturday,
pack for lunch
at the HIV clinic

the soup became his body 
his caring fingertips
his spine

after I hung up on the zoom call
I made the soup
ate it alone at 10pm

it was delicious
punchy, and spicy


on a walk today
I, dejected,
thought of all the things I wished I had done before
the world shut down
before covid ended short my
one-year master’s program 

I imagined myself,
dressed in a long, light coat for spring
walking atop bricks with my backpack heavy,
pouring through library collections,
visiting museums,
running into classmates after lectures
& then going out for a beer

the things I wished I had done


 the lentil soup is a thing I have done
a thing I have made,
and I let it feed me
after diasporic disorienting
zoom shabbat

and I wasn’t so sad,
because in all the things I wished I had done,

I had really done so many
in staying home
and eating the

About Martha Schnee

Martha is a photographer, writer, facilitator, and mover. Her work crosses disciplines and centers around looking closely, taking time, studying places, and always experimenting. She has worked in public housing communities, art therapy, museum education, and at a variety of interdisciplinary arts organizations. She is a current Master’s Student in Arts Education at the Harvard Graduate School of Education. 

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